We have a date!

I had a doctor's appointment this morning and my OB is scheduling me for a c-section on Monday, July 23. Wow! That's exactly 4 weeks from today. I can't believe she will be here so soon. I am so excited.

 35 weeks!

Of course I still worry every day that something will go wrong, but I've gotten a lot better. I got the book that my yoga instructor read from and I want to share a passage with you. The book is Journey to the Heart, by Melody Beattie. The passage is called "Don't Worry."

"Worrying doesn't help. Our worries haven't prevented one disaster along the way. At times, the only thing they've prevented is our joy. Our worries are fear. We say, I will worry and be fearful until things have worked out, only then can I relax and enjoy. Our worries are self-punishment, a form of not forgiving ourselves, not loving ourselves, not trusting. 

We may think that worrying helps ward off trouble, but that's an illusion. Sometimes worrying brings troubles upon us, because we're so caught up in our fear that we don't take the responsible steps we need to take. By neglecting our lives due to worry and fear, we may bring needless consequences upon ourselves. 

The lesson is trust. When we're trusting, we let go of our fear, confident that what we want and need will come. We trust that if what comes appears to be trouble or hardship, we will get what we need to get through that, too. When we trust, we get peaceful first, before we get what we want, before we see what the future brings. 


Worry and fear are the opposite of love.
Love yourself more that you ever have.
Love yourself enough to stop worrying.
Love yourself enough to give yourself the gift of peace."

Powerful, huh?